October 06, 2025

 Happy Monday!

Love believes the best about others. It doesn't automatically think the worst. Maybe that rude comment made by that person was because they had a bad day. Maybe they need some space. Believing the best is one way to help things instead of hurt the situation. Maybe they are staring at you because your beautiful. Don't think the worst. Maybe they are looking at you because they liked your shirt. Don't assume they are deeply involved with you from one look. It's actually funny sometimes the things people think. You can tell the negative people when they see or hear something. They run and tell 60 people their interpretation of what the saw or heard. But what if we didn't jump into the evil or negative thoughts so quickly. What if you asked the person what happened? What if you offered to help, instead of just talk about their situation. What if we were willing to help every person we take the time to talk about. Talking is sometimes us just putting our own projections onto others. Or a way to feel glad we are not in their shoes. So you feel like your better than them. Or you want to judge them. It's all silly. Surely God is bigger than that. 

Lastly don't go looking for other people faults. That shows you are desperate to make them look bad. You desire to see the wrong. You are believing the worst. Stop putting your nose where it doesn't belong. You don't know the situation so don't assume you understand why someone is doing something. You don't know where they are in God. If your 60 and they are 39 of course your more mature. They might not be fighting the battles you fight. Don't go picking on people. When they get to your age they will see things your way. They probably don't see it your way. Give them time. Don't rush them to be older. They will not respond like you. 

We don't want to sit and stare at people waiting for them to do something wrong. If they have 80 good days. I'm sure God is not mad about 1 bad day. Who says you were perfect. Don't get down on yourself for one bad day. I know some critical person was waiting for you to fall. So they can point the finger. But what if you allowed yourself space to grow. Celebrate the 80 days you ignored it and was great. 

Have a beautiful day!